Enjoyment

People party differently, or rather, some do not. Since we are social animals, getting together to celebrate or enjoy is pretty much a done thing everywhere. Some people (like me) however do not like crowds that much, I’d rather have a book to read and a computer to be by than dancing and singing with much more gregarious people. That’s not to say I don’t like people, in fact I find them fascinating, but I find direct continous communication somewhat stressing. It’s one of the reasons why I like email and text-chats, and one of the major reasons why I prefer online forums to actual live meetings. I can speak in a crowd impromptu, but it takes more out of me than say, a group-email that conveys the same facts. I don’t have an issue with me being like this, I rather enjoy the way I am ;-).

What I have an issue with is the fact that some people who do party (and caps all the way for that), consider that I’m somehow not normal. This short trip that I was on last week put on the table something I’ve realized for some time now: people enjoy life differently, and I’m in the minority.

For the people above, here’s a live and let live premier.

2 responses

  1. rightly said.But it seems futile telling people that “im that way and prefer being alone as long as i find happiness”(even if its the truth) cos the majority wins in a group and bcos im a person who shares ur ideology.

    kudos to you.good work.find it ineresting getting new pages each time i click a link .there needs to be some disorder for nything to be intriguing.

  2. rightly said.But it seems futile telling people that “im that way and prefer being alone as long as i find happiness”(even if its the truth) cos the majority wins in a group and bcos im a person who shares ur ideology.

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